Sexual tension can make or break a relationship. In some cases, relationships can progress further thanks to the presence of sexual tension that keeps the couple wanting more of each other. However, there are times when too much sexual tension creates a negative effect on your partner and your relationship. Building and sustaining the correct amount of sexual tension with your partner can reward you with a long lasting relationship.Men and women have different attitudes when it comes to ‘sexual tension’. For women, sexual tension can refer to a feeling they get when they are around someone they’re attracted to. The uncertain nature of how the relationship may develop is what creates the tension, hence creating a sense of anticipation of what is to come. The tension is heightened by physical contact or the possibility of physical contact.However, problems arise when only one party feels the tension. When this happens, the opportunity for physical intimacy is diminished. For a relationship to blossom, sexual tension must be felt between both people. Sexual tension can become a powerful tool that binds the couple together, emotionally and physically. It can be difficult to tell if the man you are talking to feels the same sexual tension, hence the only way is only to kiss and tell.It can be exceedingly difficult to hide your sexual attraction from the person you are attracted to. The only surefire way to discover if a person really likes you is to make your own feelings known. When men kiss women, one tactic they can employ is to withhold the kiss. Brush your lips lightly against hers as your breath gently bathes her cheek with waves of warm excitement. Withhold the actual kiss and try to force her to make the first move. She might feel a slight sense of rejection, but she will become more drawn to you and will hunger for your kiss.However, too much of sexual tension can harm your relationship. Continued denial can be hurtful and you may be denying your loved one from the care and affection that is necessary in maintaining a healthy adult relationship. You may also make your partner feel unwanted and unattractive. Women want their men to pay attention to them. Exercise caution when you attempt to heighten sexual tension.The best lovers are able to determine the best times to tease and the best times to please. There are opportunities to turn up sexual tension in your everyday life. Tensions can be coyly teased to its erupting peak during everyday activities such as dinner or romantic walks in the park. As mentioned before, creating sexual tension can be good, as long as you know how the amount of tension to employ and the degree in which you should lead on your loved one.Sexual tension is a basal human emotion that needs to be experienced to be understood in its entirety. If you don’t feel any sexual tension, you can try spicing things up with your partner. Learning how to use sexual tension to heighten the feeling and being loved and wanted is definitely useful. Try employing these tactics the next time you want to add something special to your love life.